Belle should get what she deserves which is child support. She can try to check him out now, but again, he was a one-night stand - what are the odds he's a child molester/murderer - this sounds like something that would happen in a daytime soap. She thinks that the antibiotic she was on at the time. She told me she was on birth control at the time, which is the only reason we had sex without protection. I got her pregnant from a one night stand. The girl is 19 and goes to the same school that I do. Is it really wise to forego any chance of child support on the VERY off chance that the guy who wanted the OP to get an abortion will want to be actively involved and actually try to get custody?! I 20M got a girl pregnant from a one night stand. I also would talk with a counselor to help you through this, as well as to help you understand your thought processes when dealing with this guy and how to engage in healthy relationships. He may be great, but I would not chance my child's life/safety/well-being with a complete stranger. My advice may seem melodramatic, but you just don't truly know this guy. As some stated, there are men desperate enough to get rid of a woman and unborn baby. I do think, however, you should retain his info so that when or if your child wants to know him, they can meet in a supervised setting.Īt this point I would not badger him about this child at all. I would have him vetted first, make sure he has no criminal history (you'd be surprised) and even if he doesn't, it could mean he just hasn't been caught yet. Abusers, child molesters, murderers etc., can usually manage to be charming and seem normal for a night or even a couple of months. If you have become pregnant following a one-night stand, you may be experiencing a range of emotions. Why? Belle knows nothing about him, and doing anything to give this man rights without knowing more about him could be dangerous for the child.īelle, I know (as do many) how it can feel to just get this vibe with someone and just think think you know them. I would NOT put his name on that birth certificate.

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